2. confrontation
"then we can no longer work
together" |
On the opposite end of the scale from avoidance
comes confrontation, when things become so bad that "making do"
with an unsatisfactory situation is no longer an option.
This columnist has tried this more assertive approach
many times, as both a salaried employee and an independent contractor. In
the absence of any coordinated action with other colleagues - which has
usually not been feasible - the results have been pretty consistent: a not-so-sweet
parting of company.
In a recent case, one agency employer I was working
for - instead of offering a raise after two and a half years of close cooperation
- unilaterally cut my and other independent contractors' fees by ten to
twelve per cent across the board.
"We have a universalist system here. We cannot treat
you any differently from anyone else. If you can't work under these terms,
then we can no longer work together," the director told me coldly when
I dared to protest. I do not work for him any more.
negotiating a compromise... |